This is a very personal matter but the reason I’m sharing it here is because I need to get it out of my system like a bad case of diarrhea (yes, it’s gross and disgusting) and hopefully feel better.
My husband and I are recently kinda going through some rough days at work and I must say wherever we are right now, the bulk of the stress we are getting comes from the people we work with and not with the actual work, sucks right? Especially when you just want to plainly make a living and live your life.
When you are surrounded by dementors who feeds on your happiness, what should you do? How do you keep going on without sacrificing your overall health? Is it worth stressing over these people?
That’s when my dear husband said this “will they still matter in the next 5 years?” and it
felt like he cast an “Expecto Patronum” spell and made me realize that these people won’t really matter to me soon and that I shouldn’t give them the limited time and f*cks I have in this world (as Mark Manson said on his book “The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck”).
I have to remember that whatever I do for a living is just a mere fraction of who I am as a person and whatever gossip/rumor my malicious office mate spreads around is just coming from her jealous bones.
So with all my might and happy memory let me cast this to you as well to keep the dementors away.